I have quite a few ideas but I just feel so mentally exhausted all the time; that’s the reason why I never seem to be here. School’s hard but I could pretty easily make time but everything is so difficult and I’m pretty much always tired. My plan to improve is that I’m going to start a plan/schedule to do things in and if I can motivate myself then also do all my homework ASAP.
- Billi x
Before I start I’m going to say that I’m not a relationship expert in the slightest.
No, I really don’t think you should. At the end of the day even if your friend wants you to date him and you like him he still has a girlfriend; no one should get in between them (I’m not saying you would). Also he’s texting your best friend still even though she has no interest and he is in a relationship. Even if he were to break-up with his girlfriend you know that he’s still interested in your best friend; you shouldn’t be in a relationship where you’re unsure whether he still likes her, in my eyes it wouldn’t be at all healthy.
However if you find out he doesn’t like your best friend and at some point breaks up with his current girlfriend then maybe you should but only if. If he still likes your friend and not his girlfriend then what he’s doing is wrong, he’s leading his girlfriend on even though nothing is happening with his ex.
- Billi x
I went clubbing with my friends a few weeks ago and I saw a really fit guy. So I told one of my friends that this guy was pretty fit and she just went up to him and said that I wanted to dance with him because I liked him. And this guy came to me and we danced to Give It 2 U by Robin Thicke and he just smiled at me and we didn’t say a single word.
- Laura x
You can tell by the way I use my walk, I’m a woman’s man: no time to talk.
Awww, thank you so much, darling! This message made my day. You are so lovely. I wish the same to you! :)
- Laura xx
We’re just friends. Or were. I don’t even know anymore. I don’t think he likes me the way I like him. I just try to forget him. It’s nothing serious, really. He is waaaaay out of my league.
- Laura x
No, no. It’s a bit complicated. I just wanted to make an example that when you take a chance and say hi to someone you really want to talk to, then you probably will start talking to them.
- Laura x
At some point, you have to make the first move. It may be awkward, but it’s worth it. And it might not be awkward at all! I see it every day - that’s how people meet each other. For example, I went to school on Friday and a guy looked at me in the wardrobe, smiled and said ‘wow, I really like your hair. What is it? Purple? That’s amazing’ and I just smiled and said thanks and then he introduced himself and now we are friends on Facebook and we talk to each other…
I’m going to tell you a small story. There is a guy living next to my house. We both started studying medicine this year. In september, we saw each other in the bus every single morning we went to school and evening we went back home. I wanted to talk to him so badly. The whole month we stared at each other in the bus and we had this eye-conversation. In october, when we got out of the bus, I just turned around and smiled. He smiled too. And I said ‘hi, you study medicine with me, right?’ and he went ‘yeah, I noticed you already in september! It’s funny that we live in the same place, I think. It’s an area where a lot of old people live and my neigbours are basically all old people. I’m Kristjan btw’. :) See? I just had to say hi. We went to school every single morning together and we talked about everything and we became really close. Saying hi to someone isn’t hard at all. The person you are going to greet is exactly the same - he feels the same things, he has his own insecurities and fears. And you like him, so it means he’s lovely - there’s nothing to lose… you can just win so much. This Kristjan, for example, he asked me to dance at a party, we do homework together, we have our own inside jokes, we stare at each other in a lecture and then smile when we catch each other staring, we have our own game - basically every Wednesday we have a party and on Thursday morning Kristjan and I play this game called ‘The walk of shame’, so on our way to school we name people we think were really naughty last night and then when we’re at school we just observe those people and watch how ashamed they actually are.
So take a chance. Y’know, my best friend Priit said that boys like when girls start talking to them or just say hi. He said that boys are like REALLY happy when girls pay attention to them and just want to talk to them. You don’t lose anything, but you have so much to win.
Ask him something about schoolwork or maybe he has an interesting hobby and you can ask something about it? You have to say something… because that’s the only way you actually start talking to him.
I’m sorry if it didn’t help, but please, just be you, don’t be afraid of being awkward and take a chance. You never know what may happen.
- Laura x
Awh, thank you and you are welcome.
- Laura x
Every single girl who thinks that they’re “fat”, “ugly”, “too skinny”, “too boring”, “weird”, “not good enough” and that you have no chance to be Harry’s girlfriend, you’re wrong. Keep dreaming and don’t cry. There will be your prince (even if it’s not Harry Styles) who will adore and love every single thing about you. :)